the confident you

The Confident U
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You can be comfortable in your own skin. Try these ideas for embracing the many aspects of you.


The Comfortable U

    * Always have a go-to pair of comfortable jeans.
    * Wear a Comfort-U Back bra from Bali. You won't believe the amazing level of comfort and support until you try it!
    * Let your inner and outer beauty shine. Don't wear makeup if you aren't in the mood.
    * Never skimp on comfortable shoes. Stand straighter and be more confident.

The Fun U

    * Have some fun and create a collage of what inspires you to live beautifully.
    * Play some music and dance.
    * Plan a movie night and watch old comedies.
    * Break out the board games.
    * Skip the gym and do an obstacle course in the park instead.
    * Laugh and always find good friends to laugh with…often.

The Elegant U

    * Once a year, go to a black tie party and get dressed to the nines.
    * Practice good posture and you will walk with grace.
    * Save for diamond studs—they never go out of style and are always elegant.
    * Take ballroom dance lessons.
    * Wear the most elegant intimates underneath it all.

The Professional U

    * Make eye contact with every sturdy handshake you give.
    * Feel confident underneath your suit with Bali Intimates.
    * Always find out if the situation calls for business or business-casual attire.
    * Tell yourself every morning that you are competent and confident.

The Romantic U
Romantic flowers

    * Eat dinner by candelight once a month.
    * Write a love note every now and again.
    * Surprise your man with flowers and tickets to a game.
    * Light a fire, turn off the TV and get cozy.

The Beautiful U

    * Smile daily.
    * Laugh often.
    * Love freely.
    * Appreciate the little forms of beauty, like wearing an elegant bra underneath your sweats—only you will know it's there.
    * FEEL CONFIDENT IN YOURSELF

MY THOUGHTS

there are days i actually make a big deal about my dinner at home. even if the food is store-bought, i use my best china, take out the wine glass and eat by candle light.  feels good.  especially after a tiring month.  that's my romantic me.  the beautiful me transforms my small abode into a spa- with scented candles, soft light and soothing music and a 2-hour massage. the comfortable me and the fun me?  oh well, that's me everyday.i love working at home in my tattered shorts and shirt, no make-up.  heaven on earth!